SHARE helps families deal with loss, grief

Sometimes, the joy of pregnancy ends abruptly in miscarriage or still birth. Nurses who work at Southeast Missouri Hospital's Elrod Obstetrics and Gynecology Center are trained as SHARE counselors to help those who lives are touched by the tragic death of a baby through miscarriage, stillbirth or newborn death.

The goal is to treat infants with respect and dignity, no matter how small. 

SHARE Support Group meets during Grief Support Group meeting every second Tuesday at 7 p.m. at Grace United Methodist Church or the third Wednesday of each month at 1 p.m. in the Generations Family Resource Center at Southeast Missouri Hospital.

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If parents choose, they may have photographs of their infant and even plaster castings made of the baby's feet. Volunteers make baby garments, in which the child may be buried or the parents can keep.

Mothers who suffer an early miscarriage receive a pin of two tiny feet, that are the exact size and shape of an unborn baby's feet at 10 weeks.

For more information about SHARE, contact Gayle Unverfeth at (573) 651-5560.


Nationally, it is estimated 34 percent of all pregnancies end in miscarriage. And of the more than 4 million live births recorded in the U.S. every year, there are about 26,000 fetal deaths (stillborns, 20 weeks to term) and about 18,000 early neonatal deaths (birth to 28 days).

SHARE began in the fall of 1977 at St. John's Hospital in Springfield, Ill. Today, its national headquarters is located on the campus of St. Joseph Health Center in St. Charles, Missouri.

Southeast founded its SHARE program Feb, 14, 1982, and has helped many families since that time. The local SHARE counselors have developed a package of information for families, containing a memory book, pamphlets and soft-bound books, geared to each particular loss. There are even books geared to siblings affected by the loss.


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